Sex & Love
Sex & Love
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17 Kids Of Sex Workers Confessed What Their Lives Were Reallyyyy Like, And It's A Lot To Handle
A lot goes on behind closed doors.
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This Guy Shared The One Thing His Date Said That Made Him Stand Up And Leave Immediately, And Now He's Wondering If He Was Too Harsh
"We started having the 'our past relationships' talk, and she told me about her high school and college boyfriends. Then, she admitted that she cheated on her college boyfriend..."
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Married Men Are Revealing The "Hardest Parts" Of Marriage That No One Talks About
"Marriage is flat-out determined work every day; you must keep at it and not give up. I loved my wife; some days, I'm sure she wanted to kill me, but she still loved me. But to make it work for us for the 38 years we were together, it was truly day-by-day solid effort every day."
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People Are Sharing Their Stories Of How "The One" Turned Into "The Ex," And It's Honestly Scary To See How Some People Change Up
Unfortunately, it wasn't a "happily ever after" after all.
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Divorced Adults In Their 40s And Up Revealed The "Marriage Myths" That No One Talks About
"People only change if THEY want to. All the flaws you see before marriage will still exist, and no matter how much you try to change someone, it won't work. You either grow together or grow apart."
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19 Differences People Have Noticed After Dating Someone With An Age Gap
"There is some stuff about internet culture she doesn't get, but maybe it's a good thing not being terminally online."
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25 Worst Date Experiences That Prove That The Bar Is, Literally, In Hell
I will think about this deeply un-sexy harmonica player story for the rest of my life.
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26 Divorcees Revealed The Final Straw In Their Marriage, And Let It Be A Cautionary Tale
"He started screaming at me and berating me, and I just broke down in tears. I thought, 'Oh my god, what have I done?'"
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"I Split Up With Him That Day": People Are Recalling The Horrible Thing Their Ex Did That Forced Them To Break Up
"It was about four hours later that he still hadn't shown up and wasn't answering his phone, so I decided to drive over there. When I pulled into the driveway..."
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5 Fantasies Women Think Are Underrepresented In Porn — And Why It Matters
This list may surprise you.
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"My Mom F****d My Best Friend's Dad": 19 Personal Stories Of People Impacted By Their Parents' Infidelity
"It's weird to say that an affair made all of our lives better but I think it did."
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Women Are Revealing Why They Chose To Be The "Side Chick" With A Taken Man, And I Wasn't Expecting This Kind Of Honesty
"I ended up breaking it off with him, resigning, and taking a $70K pay cut just to get myself out of the situation ASAP."
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"We Divorced After Two Years": People Are Sharing The Exact Moment They Knew They Wanted A Divorce, And Sheesh, Some Of These Stories Are Real AF
"My exit from the marriage was shortly afterward."
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Experts Are Sharing The Things You Should *Always* Do After Having Sex
Your body and mind will thank you for it.
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This Woman Just Found Out That Her Husband Has Been Purposely Tightening All Of Her Jar Lids For The Last Five Years. Now, She's Divorcing Him For Gaslighting Her
"He still won't admit that he tightened the lids on purpose. He suggested we go to marriage counseling, but I refused. There is no point."
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15 Women Shared The Totally Mundane Moment When They Realized Their Husband Was "The One," And It's More Romantic Than Any Movie
"He gave me this look, then looked to the backseat, then back to me."
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"I Still Think Of Her Daily": Older Adults Are Sharing If They Still Have Feelings For "The One Who Got Away"
"Fifty years later, happily married with kids and grandkids, I still think of her almost daily. A bittersweet longing that I will have until the end."
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Only Millennial Women Will Be Able To Understand The Level Of Confusion Gen Z Women Are Currently Experiencing Dating And Texting Millennial Men
"Me every day unsure if I'm texting him or my doctor."
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People With A Foot Fetish Answered Questions About Their Kink, And It's Enlightening TBH
It's one of the most common fetishes out there – so let's stop acting like it's strange.
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Millions Of Women On TikTok Are Sharing How Trusting Their Husband With Their Best Friend Ruined Their Marriage
"Yeah...I had that. They're married now and expecting a baby next month."
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Non-Americans Who Married Americans Say These Are Some Of The Biggest Differences They've Noticed
"There's a pressure to be perfect in American life that makes having difficult emotional conversations, at least for his family, almost impossible."
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Divorced People Are Revealing The Moment They Knew Their Marriage Was Doomed, And It's A Real Gut Punch
"On the first night of our honeymoon, I got horrendously sick, and he left me alone in our room to go watch something on the big screen on the beach. So much for in sickness and in health!"
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"He Was Over 30 And Had Snapchat": 18 Hilariously Petty Reasons Why People Dumped Their Partner
"I ended things with him because he told me he made sangria by combining red wine and fruit punch. I was disgusted."
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19 People Who Ended Their Relationship After Hearing The Most Toxic Thing Come Out Of Their Partner's Mouth, And This Is Beyond Abusive
"I don't care how much I loved him; what he said broke me."
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"I Slept With Her Psychiatrist": 16 Secrets People Will Never, Ever Share With Their Partners
"This is why I'll never tell her."
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People With Penises Who Do This One Thing During Sex Can Leave Your Vagina Smelling ~Fishy~, According To This Expert
"Repeat after me: It’s not my vagina’s fault!"
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15 Times People Broke The Ice On Dating Apps By Being As Weird As Possible
"I can't imagine what sort of conversation she expected."
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"This Is Your Cue To Leave": People Say This Woman's Boyfriend Who Kicks Her Out Of Bed Every Day At 4 A.M. So He Can Sleep Comfortably Is A Red Flag
"I feel it’s unfair I constantly have to sacrifice only 5-6hr of sleep for myself so that he could have a peaceful eight hours."
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Gen Z'ers Dating Millennials, Share The Differences You've Noticed
Age gaps can surface a lot of differences.
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Sex Workers Revealed Their Juiciest Secrets While On The Job, And They're Not What You'd Expect
There's more to it than meets the eye.
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13 Compliments Men Love To Hear, And I'm Taking Notes
"While some people might think that’s shallow, it represents thousands of hours of work, consistency, and discipline. It’s nice when people notice."
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22 Secrets That People Revealed That They Will Never Tell Their S.O., And Some Are Truly For Very Pure Reasons
Sometimes, harmless secrets are just for peace of mind.
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19 Secrets And Confessions About Marriage That Married People Would Never Say Out Loud
"Remember why you chose to be together, keep making that choice, and it comes back better and stronger."
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22 Awful Dates Men And Women Suffered Through, Further Proving Dating Is An Extreme Sport
It's rough out there, folks.
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17 People Who Were Hilariously Oblivious To The Fact That Someone Was Hitting On Them
There's clueless, and then there's clueless.
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People Confessed Sex Acts From Porn They Thought Would Be Spicy, But Were In Fact Pretty Darn Mild
"A lie from porn is that women don't use vibrators while having sex."
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People Are Sharing Their Most Infuriating Experiences With Weaponized Incompetence
Weaponized incompetence is when someone pretends to be bad at something so they won't have to do it — and judging by these stories, it happens far too often.
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15 Married Men Confessed What They Look Forward To Doing When They're Finally Home Alone
"I did this from Friday night when I got home from work until Monday morning when I went back."
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Men Got Candid About Sleeping With Women Who Were "Taken," And It's All Very Eye-Opening
"I'm gonna be really honest here: For a long time, I did not care at all. If she wanted to have sex with me, whatever. Not my sin, not my problem."
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People Are Sharing The Exact Moment They Realized Their Partner Was Not "The One"
Sometimes it hits you like a ton of bricks that things are not going to work out.
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Couples Are Revealing How They Went From "We're Just Friends" To "We're Exclusive" After A Steamy Hookup
"After that, every time we saw each other, we would hug. The hugs got longer and longer."
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"I Knew At The Reception We Would Be Divorced Soon." People Who Got Divorced In Their First Year Of Marriage Are Revealing What Actually Happened
"My now ex-husband shared that he had feelings for another woman, and I immediately knew who it was — his coworker who was also a 'friend' of mine."
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"I Dated A Coworker, And It Ruined My Career": 11 People Who Have Dated A Coworker/Boss Are Sharing Their Experiences
"Lesson learned: don't sleep with people at work!"
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Divorced People Are Revealing Their Spouse's "Red Flag" That Immediately Ended Their Marriage
"I knew at that moment I never wanted to touch her again."
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This 26-Year-Old Woman Dumped Her Boyfriend Mid-Trip After He Insulted Her Looks — Now, His Family Is Demanding She Pay For His Flight Home
"He couldn't stop mentioning how much better I’d look if I put in more effort like this girl right here or that girl over there, which made me feel inadequate and insecure. "
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Sex Therapists Are Sharing Tips For Achieving Your Best Sex Life Yet, And Some Of These Might Surprise You
Chances are, you're already doing some of these things. 🔥
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15 Little Everyday Things That Men Say Melt Their Hearts Like Butter In The Sun
"It was the most lovely selfless gesture."
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People Are Revealing Their Husbands' Biggest Secrets They Learned While Married To Them, And Holy Crap
"We're divorced now for a different reason, but I wish he'd have told me sooner."
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"So Many Men Treat Women As Sexual Objects" — Women Around The World Are Swearing Off Sex And Dating, And Here's Why
Yeah, sex is cool, but have you ever tried abstinence as a form of self-care...
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17 Myths Women Grew Up On When It Came Down To Sex, Love, And Relationships
"You'll be saved from whatever bad experiences you're going through by finding a man."
!["Men from Craigslist were coming over while he was taking care of my daughter" over a crying scarlett johansson](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/21/18/tmp/6f21da01a04e/tmp-name-5-768-1716314832-5_dblbig.jpg)
People Who Found Out About Their Spouses' Sinister Secrets After Marrying Them Are Sharing What Happened, And It's Really Frightening
"I had no idea when I married the loser that everything he said was a lie."
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Husbands Are Sharing The Secrets They've Uncovered About Their Wives AFTER Marriage
I guess that's why they say communication is key.
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People Are Sharing The Spicy Workplace Affairs They Either Participated In Or Witnessed, And It's An HR Nightmare
"Over the span of two years, I had FOUR workplace affairs."
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"I Had No Idea": This Doctor's PSA About Health And Hygiene Is Vital For Anyone With A Vagina
"I’m a 33-year-old woman who has great hygiene and was raised by a nurse practitioner. If I didn’t know this, I’m confident many others might not either."
!["I started asking his mom questions and figured out he had completely catfished me" over a confused groom and a sobbing bride being held by a friend](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/16/21/tmp/4f1dce309a16/tmp-name-5-685-1715894759-0_dblbig.jpg)
People Are Sharing The Bombshells Their Spouses Dropped On Them After Marriage, And It's Actually Terrifying
"He told me right after our honeymoon that he was only pretending to like the things I liked. We had no real common interests."
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Take This One-Question Quiz To Reveal What Type Of Husband You Are On Mother's Day
This isn't a trick question.
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I Actually Think I Lost All Faith In Men After Learning Some Of The Things Women Have Accidentally Found In Men's Homes
"At least keep that stuff in the guest room…"
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48 Poor, Poor, Poor Souls Who Found Out They Were Being Cheated On In The Worst Possible Way
"She told me, sort of. She 'needed a break' and wanted to go on a trip to Mexico with a friend. They booked at what they claimed was the only place where there wouldn't be any kids...a swinger's resort."
![Two images side by side; on the left, a person voting, and on the right, a hand holding a smartphone with love icons. Text: dating someone with different political beliefs](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/16/20/tmp/fd0ad2e073cf/tmp-name-5-495-1715891685-0_dblbig.jpg)
Voters Are Sharing Why They Would (Or Wouldn't) Date Someone From A Different Political Party
"It depends. I'd be open to dating someone with different political beliefs as long as they realize my opinions are also valid. Many people believe only their positions are correct and anything else, therefore, must be wrong. But there is one caveat: they need to believe certain things like LGBT rights, racism, and sexism are bad."
![sofia vergara clapping with the text "me when a grown man has hand soap in his bathroom" and hand soap](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/15/18/tmp/d2c85c7eab99/tmp-name-5-1507-1715797276-0_dblbig.jpg)
Hey Men, If You Have These 23 Things In Your Apartment, Women Consider You A Walking Green Flag
I can't believe we've reached the point in society where a man not having dried pee on his floor is a "green flag," but here we are.
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"That’s When I Realized I Made A Terrible Mistake": Divorced People Are Revealing Their Partner's "Red Flag" That Ended Their Marriage Right Then And There
"Then it hit me: I was better off without her."
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Guys Are Getting Super Honest About Things That Bug Them About Their Female Friends, And Platonic Relationships Really Are Just As Complicated As Romantic Ones
"Women always seem to blur that line when it suits them."
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People Are Rallying Behind This Mom Of Six After Her Husband Refused To Do ANYTHING For Her On Mother's Day
"I was disappointed that my husband told me, 'You are not my mother' and 'I didn't do anything for my kids' mother, so why would I do something for you?'"
![a man sticking his hand in an elevator to hold the door and a woman watching him; then the man and woman kissing](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/10/20/tmp/1e5fed4bdd0d/tmp-name-5-5326-1715374714-0_dblbig.jpg)
People Who Got Involved In Office Romances And Affairs Are Sharing All The Nitty-Gritty Details, And It's Intriguing
"We had incredible sex together, and I experienced a wild side of her I had never seen before. Afterward, we got dressed and ran a very successful meeting."
![Tyler James Williams on "Abbott Elementary;" Dan Levy on "Schitt's Creek"](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/13/19/tmp/1c31cc6e60b0/tmp-name-5-669-1715626945-0_dblbig.jpg)
15 Men Who Went On Horrendous Dates And Lived To Tell The Tale
"My date brought her toddler. I thought it was a date, considering we met on a dating site. But she seemed to be only interested in interviewing me as a babysitter."
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15 Times When Scheduled Sex Brought Couples Closer Together Or Drove Them Apart
Sometimes organization is key.
![Woman sitting relaxed with a drink, smiling at a man vacuuming the room](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/10/20/tmp/5d804db00665/tmp-name-5-531-1715373827-0_dblbig.jpg)
This Unemployed 28-Year-Old Stopped Doing All Chores After His Wife – Who Earns All Their Income – Jokingly Called Him A "Househusband"
"She told me that she would stop calling me a househusband if I was going to 'get that upset about it,' but that it wasn't an untrue term and I needed to stop being insecure."
![Man and woman having sex in bed](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/8/17/tmp/ed25e7d68385/tmp-name-5-1726-1715190425-1_dblbig.jpg)
16 Women Revealed Their Casual Sex Experiences, And Their Perspectives Are Pretty Intriguing
"I absolutely don't regret having casual sex. No one got hurt. I got a lot out of my system that needed to be released."
!["I figured if he was sleeping around, it might as well be with me" over dwight and angela from the office getting caught fooling around](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/8/17/tmp/21633c25d4eb/tmp-name-5-714-1715188639-1_dblbig.jpg)
Employees Who've Had Or Witnessed Scandalous Workplace Affairs Are Telling Their Stories, And Ohhh Boyyyy
"The company covered the whole thing up and blamed me. I quit before hitting my year mark."
![Two-pane image with a woman on the left and a phone text conversation on the right politely declining a date](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-04/26/18/tmp/b36383323c5c/tmp-name-5-1120-1714157692-0_dblbig.jpg)
This Feminist Dating Coach Is Teaching People About How To "Bless And Release," And If You're In The Dating Game This Is Need-To-Know Info
When you “bless and release” someone you’re seeing, you wish them well and let them go.
!["I regret marrying on the rebound" over Mr Big and Natasha next to Carrie from Sex and the City](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/8/19/tmp/bb36ed5f23b6/tmp-name-5-637-1715198234-2_dblbig.jpg)
28 Divorcees Opened Up About Their Lingering Regrets From Past Marriages, And It's A Hard-Hitting Reality Check
"I regret not being strong enough to break it off before we reached the altar. I knew it wasn't forever, and I never loved her."
![Woman talking and gesturing to a man who looks contemplative, both seated on a couch](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/13/15/campaign_images/ba27b3bed151/16-specific-things-about-women-men-need-to-know-5-449-1715615952-20_dblbig.jpg)
16 Specific Things About Women Men Need To Know
"The most underrated thing a man can do is this..."
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"It’s A Way Of Increasing Sexual Passion And Eroticism" — Experts Are Sharing The One Thing You Should Incorporate Into Your Sex Life Immediately
If you're only focusing on intercourse, sex experts say you're missing out big time.
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Women Are Calling Guys Out For The Things They've Found In Their Bedroom, And Sheesh, Guys Need To Do Better
"Omg! My clothes couldn’t come off fast enough."
!["The last time I saw him was eight days before I gave birth to our child" over a pregnant person in a hospital bed next to crying mindy kaling](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/7/14/tmp/9aecb5aab826/tmp-name-5-2579-1715091941-0_dblbig.jpg)
16 People Who Were Ghosted By Their Long-Term Partners And Left With A Lot Of Questions
"It's been seven years, and I haven't heard from them since."
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Answer These Modern Dating Dealbreakers To Determine If Your Dating Expectations Are Too Unrealistic
I don't ask for much, just let me win every time we play Uno, please.
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People Are Sharing How They Caught Their Partner Cheating, And I'm Living For The Drama
"I was suspicious, my spider senses were tingling. She left her laptop open so I logged into her work email. Her lover was a coworker. Nothing was in the inbox. The dummy deleted all the emails but didn't delete her trash. It was all there."
!["I regret not prioritizing our relationship after we had a kid. We became roommates" over a sad couple in bed with their kid](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/6/17/tmp/1817057a6be9/tmp-name-5-481-1715014974-0_dblbig.jpg)
33 Divorced People Just Shared Their Biggest Regrets And The Lessons They Learned, And It's Both Heavy And Insightful
"Never marry someone without running a background and credit check."
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This Wife Forced Her Husband To Write A Reddit Post To Prove She's Right But It Backfired And Now People Are Accusing Her Of Slut-Shaming Another Woman
If it starts "my wife is making me write this post," you know it's gonna be juicy.
![Man and woman kissing](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/2/20/tmp/2012b89dca98/tmp-name-5-11682-1714682360-0_dblbig.jpg)
Men Confessed Their Casual Sex Stories, And How They Truly Feel About The Whole Ordeal
Let's get down to it.
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18 Partners Who Turned Out To Be Major Jerks By Betraying Their Significant Others Prettyyyyy Badly
"I caught them many times, and they lied each instance."
!["He came back from the bathroom and put his wet hands on my face, saying they were covered in pee" over a woman grimacing at a dinner table](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-05/1/17/tmp/d19a3be48465/tmp-name-5-7281-1714586389-0_dblbig.jpg)
24 Women Just Revealed The Most Heinous Thing A Man Has Ever Said To Them While On A Date, And Prepare To Be So, So, So, So, So, So Mad
It is sooooo bleak out there. Woooof.
![A woman expressing surprise with wide eyes and a hand over her mouth](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-04/30/20/tmp/5c39a03690e8/tmp-name-5-2550-1714509980-0_dblbig.jpg)
"It Makes Me Feel Important": Adults Are Sharing The 21 Attributes That Make People Immediately Hotter, And Nothing Screams "Green Flag" More
"Picky eaters are a HUGE turnoff. If you're difficult about food, then what else are you difficult about in life..."
![Two side-by-side shots of a woman with a contemplative look, captioned with a first date spending query](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-04/29/19/tmp/6344c0ce1c4b/tmp-name-5-1807-1714418925-0_dblbig.jpg)
I'm Aching To Know How Much You're Willing To Spend On These 15 Common Dating Scenarios (Especially In This Economy)
Spending $300 on a first date is wild...
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"I Reached Out And Never Got A Response": People Are Bravely Sharing The Moment They Knew They Were Getting Ghosted By Someone
"It’s been almost 20 years, and I still wonder what happened."
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People Who Vote Differently Than Their Partners Are Revealing How It's Affected Their Relationship, And Wow, It's Brutal
"The arguments have gotten pretty horrible in our house. I'd be lying to say I haven't considered divorce over it."
![Michelle Yeoh in "Crazy Rich Asians;" Reese Witherspoon in "Legally Blonde"](https://img.buzzfeed.com/buzzfeed-static/static/2024-04/24/16/tmp/4d947b084f00/tmp-name-5-817-1713975770-9_dblbig.jpg)
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Bad Vacations And New Phones: People Whose Marriages Were On The Brink Of Divorce Are Sharing What Saved Them
"I never lost faith that the person I married was still in there..."
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This Guy’s 24-Year-Old Fiancé Wants His Ex-Wife To Change Her Last Name Because It’s “Awkward” To Have The Same Name
"She feels that keeping his last name must mean I'm still in love with him, and this is my secret way of assuring we end up together again someday."
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18 Cheating Stories That Just Prove That Men's Emotions Are All Over The Place
Men: Can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em.
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"It’s Something That Should Be Done In Casual Sex" — Experts Are Sharing The Importance Of Including This BDSM Practice Into Our Sexual Encounters
This ritual can improve your sex life, whether you're kinky or not.
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19 People Who Married The First Person They Dated Revealed What Happened After
"Sometimes, I play the what-if game and wonder what my life would have been like if I hadn't gone out on that first date."
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People Are Telling This Woman To Get A Divorce After Her Husband's Prank Made Her Throw Her $10K Wedding Ring Into The Ocean
"I was blinded by rage and hurt, and I’m not a confrontational person at all, so all I did was stand up, take my rings off, and throw them into the ocean."
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"I Woke Up And Realized Our Marriage Was Dead." Older Adults Are Revealing The Unexpected "Secrets" About Marriage That Nobody Talks About
"A successful marriage will have ups and downs. Anyone who says they never have ups and downs is not being truthful."
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Experts Are Sharing The 7 Things Your Date Immediately Notices About You, And Its Need-To-Know Info For Your Next Coffee Or Dinner Date
Dating experts and daters reveal the things your date is likely — and unlikely — to notice right off the bat.
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People With "Extremely Attractive" Partners Are Venting About What They Have To Deal With
"The first time my mom and I were alone after meeting her, she turned to me and said, 'You must be really good in bed.'"